20 October 2019

"The Persistent Widow" (sermon)


Two Rivers Pastoral Charge
Sunday October 20, 2019
Scripture:  Luke 18:1-8
Preacher:  Kate Jones


So was anyone else here a fan of the TV show, The Big Bang Theory?
*knock, knock, knock* “Penny”
*knock, knock, knock* “Penny”
*knock, knock, knock* “Penny”

Today we read the story of a persistent widow.  She believes that she is owed justice, and so she returns again and again to the house of a judge to plead her case.  And eventually she wears him down, just as Sheldon wears down Penny in The Big Bang Theory, and the judge gives in.
*knock, knock, knock* “Hey judge!”
*knock, knock, knock* “Hey judge!”
*knock, knock, knock* “Hey judge!”

Jesus tells us that this is a parable about prayer, and on the surface, it seems as though we are to be like the persistent widow, pestering God with our prayers, wearing God down until we get what we want.
*knock, knock, knock* “Hey God!”
*knock, knock, knock* “Hey God!”
*knock, knock, knock* “Hey God!”

I’ve got a couple of problems with this interpretation, with this reading of the parable.  First of all, there’s the depiction of the judge.  Jesus describes him as a person who neither respects God nor respects people.  Remembering that Jesus tells us that the two most important things are to love God and to love our neighbours, this judge is almost being set up as an anti-Jesus – the one who does the opposite of what Jesus wants us to do.  And so right off the bat, I’m troubled by the idea of comparing God to this unjust judge.

Problem #2 comes in how prayer is presented in this parable.  If we think of the widow’s persistence in pestering the judge as being how we are to pester God in prayer, then are we supposed to be continually presenting our wish list and arguing for why we should get it?

Those of us who took part in the Pastoral Visiting Workshop watched a video about prayer a couple of weeks ago (Content Warning:  mild language).  In this video, Lutheran Pastor Nadia Bolz-Weber is talking about prayer, and she refers to this type of prayer, making requests and expecting God to fulfill them, as the Santa Claus model.  “Please, Santa Claus God, give me this.  I’ve been such a good girl this year!”

And so not only do I have trouble with God being compared to an unjust judge, I also have trouble accepting prayer as a constant stream of requests to a Santa Claus-like god.

So if that reading of the parable doesn’t work for me, how else might be approach it?

Some scholars suggest that a different way of approaching it might be to see it as a parable that teaches us what we should pray for.  Remember that in the parable, what the widow is asking for from the judge is justice.  We don’t know any of the details about where she’s coming from; we don’t know any of the details of exactly what sort of justice she is asking for; we just know that she wants the judge to do what she knows is the right thing.  Therefore this parable teaches us to pray for justice, rather than presenting a personal wish list.

And there might be something in that.  After all, praying for justice is part of our prayers.  We know that God has a vision for the world – a vision of a world that is governed only by love and by peace; a vision of a world where the whole community of creation is in harmony; a vision of a world where there is no more pain, no more tears; a vision of a world where all of God’s children live with dignity, and where there is an abundance for all.

And when we pray, we plead with God that this vision might be fulfilled soon.  We pray for justice and for peace and for love that reaches to every corner of the world.  Like the widow, we are pleading with God for this vision to be fulfilled.

And this reading sits a bit better with me than the first one.  I’d rather see us pleading for justice, pleading for God’s vision to be made real, instead of presenting our Christmas wish list to God.

But it still isn’t a reading that I’m 100% comfortable with, because it implies that God, like the unjust judge, isn’t going to do justice unless we wear God down with our pleading.  But I believe in a God who truly desires this vision of justice and peace and love.  I believe that God can’t do or be anything other than justice and peace and love.

So where does that leave us with this parable?

I wonder what would happen if we were to completely flip this parable upside down?  What if, instead of identifying ourselves with the persistent widow, we were to identify ourselves with the unjust judge?  After all, we as humans do tend to like judging others; and we don’t always love God and love our neighbours in the way that God wants us to.

And if we were to identify ourselves with the unjust judge, that means that God is like the persistent widow.  God is continually pestering us to do justice.  As we sang at the start of the service, God calls us to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with God.  God isn’t going to stop pestering us until we truly listen.

Have you ever had an earworm – a song that embeds itself in your brain and won’t leave you alone?  I usually end up with several every week – in fact, that opening hymn is one of my common earworms, so I’ll probably be humming and whistling it for a couple of days now.

And I think that God’s voice might be a bit like an earworm.  That nagging voice we can’t get rid of; that persistent widow pestering us, that voice telling us to do justice, to love our neighbour, to be in harmony with one another and with all of creation.

And that is where I see this parable as a parable about prayer.  When we are in prayer continually, the ears of our heart become attuned to listening for God’s voice.  When we pray, we are training our heart to listen for and to pay attention to God’s voice.

If you watch that video that I mentioned earlier – the one where Nadia Bolz-Weber talks about prayer – she describes prayer as being like a silken thread connecting us all.  When we pray for others, we become connected to them by this invisible gossamer thread.  When we pray, we become more and more connected to God by these invisible gossamer threads.  And the more we pray, the more we can’t help but hear God pleading with us to live well in the world, and spread God’s love in the world.

God is pleading with us, like the persistent widow.  Do justice.  Love God.  Love your neighbour.

Will we have ears to listen?


The Persistent Widow is knocking -
will we have ears to listen and a heart to do justice?
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