Two
Rivers Pastoral Charge
Sunday March 8, 2026 – 3rd Sunday in Lent
Scripture Reading: John 4:5-42
I want to spend a little bit of time talking about the Woman at the Well that
Jesus encounters in today’s bible story.
She is a much loved “character” from the story of Jesus’s life – I think
I’ve mentioned before that I listen to a handful of preaching podcasts each
week, and one of the hosts, Dr. Karoline Lewis from the Sermon Brainwave
podcast, is a New Testament scholar with a focus on the Gospel of John. It’s a running joke anytime she speaks on the
podcast or elsewhere that she will defend the Gospel of John as the best gospel
right to her last breath. And in this
week’s episode of the podcast, she told us that her favourite story in her
favourite gospel was the story that we read this morning.
So what do we know about this woman? She
is unnamed for one thing – we never learn her name.
We also know that she is a Samaritan, and this is significant because the Samaritan
people and the Jewish people didn’t get along.
They really didn’t get along. The didn’t get along in the way that close
neighbours who have a lot in common sometimes don’t get along with each
other. Both groups claimed descent from
Abraham and Sarah, from Isaac and Rebekkah, from Jacob and his many wives. Both groups worshiped the same God, the God
of their ancestors. But due to some
schism in their distant path – possibly related to the schism of the kingdom
that had been united under King David and King Solomon into two separate
kingdoms, the two groups practiced their religion differently, and had
different holy sites. And a religious
squabble became an, “I don’t like you because you’re not like me so I’m not
going to talk to you” difference of opinions.
As the narrator tells us as an aside in this story, “Jews do not share things
in common with Samaritans.”
So we know that the woman at the well is a Samaritan. An outsider, if you had a Jewish
perspective. Or maybe it was Jesus who
was the outsider to her? What else do we
know about her?
We know that it was noon, and she was coming to the well alone. This is unusual behaviour. Hauling water is heavy work. In Jesus’s time and place, there was no
running water, and in many places in the world today, there is no running
water.
When I lived in Tanzania, in East Africa, I lived on the hospital compound, and
I could usually turn on the tap in my house and water would come out. (Though
water outages were common enough that I usually kept a couple of jugs of water
stashed just in case.) But for many
Tanzanians, this isn’t the reality. They
would fetch jugs and buckets of water from either a community tap, or a local
spring, or a river, and haul it home to use for drinking, for cooking, and for
washing. In Tanzania, like in many places,
hauling water is the work of women and children. I would regularly see women helping each
other lift 25-litre (6-gallon) pails of water onto each other’s heads, each one
with a piece of banana leaf floating on top to keep the water from sloshing
over the side, then trekking a kilometer or more back home.
It is heavy work. It is hot work. It is work that is done together, as it is
impossible to lift a bucket that heavy on to your own head. And it is not work that is usually done in
the heat of the day.
It is very unusual for the Samaritan woman in today’s story to be at the well
alone, and in the middle of the day. Why
wasn’t she there in the cool of the early morning or the evening with the other
women from her village? It’s almost as
if she has been shunned by her neighbours, not welcomed in the places and
groups where she would normally expect to be.
What else do we know about her? We know
that she has been married five times, and is currently with a partner to whom
she is not married.
I don’t know how you have heard this story interpreted in your past, but I know
that I have come across an interpretation in both sermons and in songs that
names this woman as promiscuous, and that her neighbours are condemning her,
shunning her for her promiscuity. But
there is absolutely nothing in the story that makes this claim. And knowing what I know about how marriages
worked in the first century in the Ancient Near East, I also know that she
likely had very little agency in her marital state.
So why might she have had so many husbands?
Option 1 is that she had been widowed 5 times over. And the effect that this would have had on
her mental and emotional health is heartbreaking. If there had been genuine love and affection
in her marriages, five times she has dealt with the grief of widowhood. And even if the marriage was more of a
business transaction as was the practice of her time and place, five times she
has lost the security of marriage and has been thrust into the vulnerability of
widowhood.
And there are social implications of this too.
Even in today’s world, if a person were widowed five times over, the
rumours fly that she or he is bad luck, or possibly guilty of murdering
spouses.
If she hasn’t been widowed, the other option is that she has been divorced five
times; and the most likely reason that a woman has been divorced multiple times
is that she is infertile. Marriage was
about family security, and a woman who couldn’t offer that to her husband would
be set aside in the hopes that a different wife might be able to do so.
And again, the emotional and social toll that this would have taken on her are
immense.
Whether she has been widowed five times over, or divorced five times over, or
some combination of the two, this woman seems to have been considered to be a
bad luck token in her community; and as a result, she is hauling water alone at
midday, without the companionship or help of the other women in her village.
And in comes Jesus. And Jesus sees he
for who she truly is. Jesus doesn’t push
her away, as if her presence might jinx him.
Jesus offers her the living water of faith and the Holy Spirit that he
gives.
And I love seeing the dialogue that ensues.
She, a woman, an outsider to Jesus’s world, a woman who has been cast
out from her expected social place in her village, this unnamed Samaritan woman
engages in dialogue with Jesus, seeking deeper meaning and seeking to know God
better. I know that this Lent, we’re
talking about hungering for God, but given that we are at a well this week, and
Jesus is offering her living water, we might better say that this woman is
thirsting for God.
Last week, if you were worshipping with us, we read the story about Nicodemus
coming to Jesus with his questions, and it is fascinating to compare the two
stories. Nicodemus is named, unlike this
week’s woman, likely because he is a man.
Nicodemus comes to Jesus hidden by the shadows of the night, while the
woman this week comes to him by full daylight where anyone could see. Nicodemus, after asking a couple of
questions, just sort of fades away back into the night; whereas this Samaritan
woman engages in a full dialogue with Jesus, then goes back to her village to
share what she has learned with others.
Which, perhaps, makes her the very first evangelist, sharing the Good News with
other people.
And, to me, it is in her return to her village that we see the crux of this
story. Because this woman who has been
outcast, not part of society, grieving and working alone – because of her
encounter with Jesus, she is empowered to start knocking on doors and
reclaiming her place in society. Maybe,
in fact, claiming a more important place in society than she ever had before as
the bearer of good news to her village.
Jesus saw her fully; and because she was fully seen, because of her encounter
with the Living Water, she was able to reclaim her place in the community that
had been denied to her for too long.
Because of her relationship with Jesus, she was able to rebuild
relationships with her neighbours.
We are not created to be alone. The
ideal of humanity is not a hermit living in a cave on the side of a mountain
with no human contact. Yes, even for
those of us who are introverts who crave alone time! We are created for community. We need each other, and we can only be fully
human through relationship with each other.
We are created in the image of God, and the God in whose image we are created
is community – the community of the Trinity, the three-in-one and the
one-in-three. God is community within
Godself, and we are created in the image of community.
In a world that feels so fractured and isolating these days – sometimes because
we are choosing our silos, and sometimes because people are pushed out – we
hunger for relationship and for community.
We hunger for belonging, and for purpose that can be found in finding
our place in the interconnected and interdependent web that we are a part of. Like the woman at the well, we hunger to be
seen, and we hunger to be accepted. And
through our relationships – our relationship with God and our relationships
with each other – we can find wholeness.
Thanks be to God.
Image: “Fetching Water, Maradi, Niger”
Photo Credit: Water Alternatives Photos on flickr




